A philosophy professor in Washington stood before his class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly he picked up a large empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with
rocks, rocks about 2 centimetres in diameter.
He then asked the students if the jar was
full? They agreed that it was.
So the professor then picked up a box of
pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles, of course, rolled into the open areas between the rocks. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The students laughed. The professor picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
"Now," said the professor, "I want you to recognise that
this is your life.
The rocks are the
important things - your family, your partner, your health, and your children - things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be
full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and your car. The sand is everything else. The small stuff.
"If you put the sand into the jar first, there is no room for the pebbles or the rocks. The same goes for your life. If you spend
all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical check-ups. Take your partner out dancing. There will always be time to go to work, clean the house, give a dinner party and fix the disposal. "Take care of the rocks first - the things that
really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just
sand."
But then ... An Australian student then took the jar which the other students and the professor agreed was full, and proceeded to pour in a glass of
beer. Of course, the beer filled the remaining spaces within the jar making the jar
truly full.
Which proves: that no matter how full your life is, there is
always room for a beer.
Thanks to 1959 for that one.
